I am probably a tad older then you folks. When I was younger, I also had this "ultimate beauty" construction thing. It got in the way of me dating. I set too high a standard. Don't get me wrong. I was never stuck up. I knew that the girls that came close were out of my league. So why bother trying at all for anyone. I'm sure that there were several that had their eye on me but I never picked up on the signs. My senses were dulled.
What is beauty to me today? I can't tell you. It could be their eyes. Their smile. The way they walk. Stuff you don't look for but it just catches you. Like the saying goes, when you see it you'll know it. When I see pictures of those girls from back then I kick myself in the ass. They were cute and I could have been with them.
Oh, and if their sporting a nice big set of cans, BONUS!